Either/Or
My friend Rock Hack noticed after her second child that she could manage accessories or makeup, but not both. I find myself living that dichotomy on a regular basis. Today I have on a bracelet and earrings that match my sweater, but not a jot of makeup. Thank goodness for tinted moisturizer.
Another friend said that having another child meant that she could do the laundry, but couldn’t manage to put it away. I’m living that one all the time too. I shift my pile of clothes back and forth between the top of my dresser and the bed for days.